A HARMFUL SONG

Last day I listened to a song on the radio that attracted my attention. It told about a girl who said to her mother something like she didn’t want to study. She just wanted to party everyday especially at weekends of course. She said she would arrive late at home, nearly in the morning. She also said that she would dress like a , you know a prostitute. Her mother obviously was shocked. Her daughter continued to say is not use arguing because she was going to do what she likes. Another sentence of this song is in Spanish. It is: “mama, yo paso de todo” . This sentence means something like: “I don’t care anything” . After listening this song, I searched for the video on “youtube”. In the video this girl is arguing with her mother while wearing just some panties. And of course she after dresses like a prostitute at the discotheque. I really didn’t understand both the song and the video. I think that with this song/video is conveyed a wrong message for young people. The message is: you must have fun, enjoy, have sex, go parties and don’t be worried about your studies. Don’t you study because is more important partying, drinking, or having sex. The message is: “don’t follow your parents’ advise because they are wrong” . Just take all your time to have fun. At the end of the video this girl ties up her mother at a chair like if she would be kidnaped. Message: violence over your parents. I am sure many young people will not be influenced for this song and continue to study in order to get trained in the future as best as possible. They are going to live hard times because of this endless economic crisis. That is why they must take seriously their studies. However I am also sure there will be a lot of young people who will acept positively this song’s message. In fact, Spain is the third country in Europe regarding school failure after Malta and Portugal. I can’t understand how sometimes music industry do not worry about the consequences of this sort of songs. They are only interested in making money at any cost. This song is a great hit in European discotheques and radio charts. The group has achieved its goal. Now they are rich. But have they thought about how many teenagers will ruin their lives because of its song? Will be they worried as this happens? Do you think music industry fosters bad habits in young people? Write your comments freely. Just right down is the video of this song. And the complete transcript. Watch it but don’t follow its message. Goodbye !!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKV6MgfmXAA

Song:

Monday - Party!, Tuesday - Party!, Wednesday - Party!, OK!, Thursday - Party!

Friday - Party!, Weekend, weekend, weekend - Party! Wow!

 I'm telling to you mama, There is no need for drama, But I don't wanna study, I just wanna party

 I'm a nini mom; You know what a nini is? Don't wait for me awake, I'm going home late

Maybe at 5... maybe at 6., Look at me mom, I'm dressing like a... I just wanna party, party...

 Mama, yo paso de todo, Wow! Weekend - Party!, Wow!

 I'm telling to you mama, There is no need for a drama

But I don't wanna study, I just wanna party

 I'm a nini mom; You know what a nini is? Courtesy of lyricshall.com

Don't wait for me awake, I'm going home late

Maybe at 5... maybe at 6., Look at me mom, I'm dressing like a... b*tch

WHITNEY HOUSTON

We have had recently a major loss. One of the most important singers in the history of music. The performer with more awards ever. She won 415 awards, among them, six Grammy awards. She also was the performer who has sold more records ever. Over 170 millions of records. She began singing as a child in a gospel choir of the “New hope baptist” church in New Jersey. She also became an actress doing a best-selling movie called “the bodyguard” singing in that film a famous song called “I will always love you” . “I have nothing” and “I am very woman” were another hits, which broke selling records. In 1992 whitney married Bobby Brown who had a child with. This marriage didn’t work. Reportedly she was hit by her husband in many of their fights. In those years Whitney began to try all kind of drugs, especially cocaine and marihuana. After several attempts at detoxification centers, she stopped taking drugs and came back to music. Her voice was seriously damaged but people still enjoyed watching her concerts. February ninth of this year she did her last concert with Kelly Price. Two days after she was found death at a hotel in Beverly Hills. She was into the bathtub and there were drugs around. There are not explanations about her death though that day she probably took “Xanax” and fell asleep into the bath having a latter asphyxia. The story of Whitney Houston is one more. A celebrity, very rich and very famous who had everything but she was not happy. She looked for happinness in drugs. She recovered. She again took drugs and was killed. Amy whinehouse was another performer who lived another seemed situation being much younger. She also had the same end. Why they were not happy? Do you think is hard being a celebrity? Would you like becoming famous? My personal opinion is they do not stood fame. They felt like a mouse inside a box. They missed being a common citizen, an unknown person. But they thought that was too late for it, and maybe it would be impossible. Whitney Houston had the nicest voice ever and I would like to worship her through this video about that under my opinion is her best song. God bless you whitney.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVpTiQn2CEY

DIVORCE IN SPAIN

This Spanish society has taught us that men must get married before thirty years old. If you don’t, people will label you as a “unsuccesful” . People will say women don’t consider you appealing, or you are homosexual or too ugly to achieve a woman becomes interested for you. This society has taught women that marriage can be a good business. You could live without working for ever because a man will look after you and pay all your caprices. You just have to do a thing in exchange: “openning your legs at nights”. Other women have learnt that marriage can be a good way to make money. Spanish law favors women when occur divorces. They get the house, the middle of the savings of that man, and the children. By the way, women never have savings, so any husband earns nothing. Another kind of women are nymphomaniacs, that is, they are addicted to sex. Some of them get tired of having sex everyday with the same person and need to change. Others need more amount of sex each day so look for other men while their poor husbands are working. There were 102.690 divorces in Spain in two thousand ten. According to ABC newspaper, from three couples who get married, two get divorced. The number of marriages in Spain has decreased around 3.5% and birth rate 5%. The main reason is because of this awful economic crisis. Taking into account that in any marriage man is who must pay most expenses, many Spanish young prefer to live as a single. Young Spanish men can’t afford the typical marriage expenses ( around one thousand per month living without having children ) so they decide to stay at their parents house for ever. Another reason could be that increasingly they realise most women are prostitutes who will try to take their money and possesions away and tear up their heart. That is why they don’t trust anyone and just live as a single, having sporadic intercourse with prostitutes at nights clubs to enjoy from time to time. They prefer this lifestyle. They are not engaged, they have not any expense and they enjoy sex with a kind of prostitutes who never will say they are waiting a child from themselves or these women will never be in the right of asking for the middle of the savings of that man. Is nice what catholic church says about marriage. You must fall in love with a woman who is in love with you as well. You both must get married and make a family having sex just in order to have children. You must have a lot of children and live all together for ever. At this time, at least in this country, I am sorry to say that is completely impossible. Do you think this situation will change someday? Women will change someday as a person? There will be unemployment for ever in this country? Write your comments just right down.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mbzyJhUvPH0&feature=fvst

AIDS

I am going to talk about AIDS. This disease attack our immune system, which is crucial for our survival. In fact, this disease causes death. This disease is communicable, that is, an infected person may spread it to others. The mains contact channels are blood, sperm, and vaginal flow. Many people think saliva, sweat or even breath also are contact channels to spread HIV. It is not true. However through kisses people could get infected if they have sores or wounds on their lips or tongues. Most risk sexual activities are vaginal penetration, anal penetration and oral sex.

The key to protect yourself against AIDS is the condon. It is not 100% safe but actually it is very effective in penetration intercourses. It must be correctly placed and it must be in perfect conditions. Anyway accidentes can happen. For example it can be broken or get stuck inside. Why young people don’t use condoms? According an interesting book that I have recently read called “communication about communicable diseases” writen by Linda K. Fuller, there are varius reasons. First young people say that the condon spoils romanticism. They are in love and want to enjoy the moment as best as they can. Condon obviously is a kind of obstacle to achieve that. Another reason is the role adopted by some women. Any woman fears to be labeled as a “bitch” . This is a major concern for her. That is why they adopt a role of a formal woman who barely has had sex. Some of them even show themselves as if they were virgins. If they would ask their partners to put a condom, they could think that they are not neither virgins or formal women, so finally they don’t dare to ask to their partners putting any condon. Other reason is lack of information. Many people think that a person who looks healthy or athletic can not be infected, so they accept having sex with him/her without condon. Many infected people can look healthy because virus has not been developed yet. Another fact is alcohol. Many young people in weekends have sex being drunk. As they are drunk don’t think about the risk of engaging in such dangerous activity of have sex with an unknown person without protection.

More than one thousand people dye each year in Spain because of this disease. Sometimes is difficult to understand how is possible after this data, some people say condons must not be used. Spain is a country with a high sexual activity according several studies. Spanish culture is rather ignorant and maybe this is the focus of the problem. Students should receive more conferences about AIDS in order to have a righ knowledge about this disease. Parents also should educate them as they are teenagers. And of course themselves should be interested in reading about it. What is clear is TV industry, Music industry and Movies industry are selling us sex all the time. These industries have realised sex gives them many money. What they should know is that such policy fosters promiscuity among people. In any case the main responsible always are yourself. Remember that famous sentence: “one minute of pleasure, all your life ruined” . Be responsible for your acts and take into account that an intercourse could cause you many problems if you practice it wrongly. Know that person as best as you can and as you are sure he/she is worht, go ahead.

That is all. I will write more about this topic in the future. As always thank your for your attention. Goodbye !!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CmQB5ZDHl8E&feature=fvst